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“Out of” Giving, The Blessing We Are Missing

There is a version of giving that comes from the bottom. This type of giving makes sure you have plenty left over. I call this “out of” giving. Most people give “out of.” The problem is that there is a blessing we are missing in “out of” giving. Financially it makes the most sense. “Out of” giving is safe. But there is still something that doesn’t add up.

In my previous post, I said that giving is emotional before it is financial. Emotional giving is a type of giving I tagged as “because of” giving. “Because of” gives from the heart. “Out of” giving is where the head kicks in. The heart says it feels right. The head makes sure the numbers are right.

In Mark 12:41-44 we see plenty of “out of” giving.

“And he sat down opposite the treasury and watched the people putting money into the offering box. Many rich people put in large sums. And a poor widow came and put in two small copper coins, which make a penny. And he called his disciples to him and said to them, ‘Truly, I say to you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the offering box. For they all contributed OUT OF their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all she had to live on.”

Mark 12:41-44

In this scene, there are “many” rich people who are putting in large sums of money. That makes sense. There is nothing unusual about it. We would expect it of them. They’ve got it, so give it.

“Out Of” Feels Better

“Out of” giving makes sure that you can feel good that you gave, but that you feel even better about having plenty left over. This kind of giving doesn’t offend your head because you can afford it and it does not hurt the heart because you can walk away feeling good that you made a contribution. “Out of” giving is practical and affordable. All is well.

This is why the widow’s gift doesn’t make sense. Even Jesus drew attention to the fact that she gave OUT OF her poverty, which was all she had, “all she had to live on.” What she did is not practical and obviously for her not at all affordable.

She zeroed out an already struggling life. She just moved from tax bracket “poor” to tax bracket “nothing.” When she dropped her two nearly worthless coins into the coffer, her life just hit rock bottom. All that she has in the world is gone. What has she done?

To answer this question we must understand four types of givers.

Four Types of Givers

2 That Give Off the Bottom
  • Takers – These are people give nothing at all. They do not feel any need to contribute. Takers give no time. They give no talent. They give no treasure. These people develop an attitude that you have more than them, so you ought to give it to them. These people look at the rich in this passage and feel that the rich owe it to them. The only reason I include the taker as a giver is because he/she will give you one thing – his/her opinion. And take it from a pastor of 20+ years, the taker’s opinion doesn’t come cheap!
  • Tippers – Tippers are people who throw in a little bit if they got something from it. These people make sure to leave a little, but that they also have a lot left over.

Both takers and tippers give “out of”, from the bottom. The turning point comes in the following two types of givers. These are people who give off the top. They put a priority on giving. Only here do we begin to understand the widowed woman of Mark 12.

2 That Take It Off the Top
  • Tithers – Tithers give the first 10% to the Lord as an act of obedience. The top 10 is protected. It is reserved for God. Tithers take on the mentality that the first 10% was never theirs to keep. There is no question that it will be given. The beauty of Biblical tithing is that everyone has a 10%. Not everyone may have $100, but everyone has a 10%.
  • Givers – It is only above the tithe that we truly begin to give. The first 10% is an act of obedience. Beyond 10% is an act of gratuitous worship. This is where sacrifice begins. It does not make sense in the head and it may hurt the heart, but the giver realizes that what is given is better with God than it is with himself. (Here is an excellent article on tithing and giving by Dave Ramsey).

This brings us back to the woman. She was not giving “because of.” Nor was she giving “out of.” She gave “all of.”

When we give off of the bottom we do it out of safety, security, and the anxiety of having nothing left. But as she zeroed out there is no sense in Jesus’ observations of her that she is anxious about anything. Perhaps Jesus words “all she had to live on” are the clue. When we give off of the bottom all we have to live on is all we think we are living for. Maybe she was living on more! Maybe she was living FOR more!

What is the Blessing?

So what is the blessing? We will discuss this more in the next post, but we know this. Her giving was a blessing to Jesus. She became a teaching moment for the master. As he gathers His disciples He has a living illustration of what He will become for them, a Savior who gives all.

She is a blessing to us. We are humbled by her story. We are drawn to Christ by her. We glorify God for her. We cannot read the Gospel of Mark without her. She becomes the blessing.

Be sure to return for the next post to find out more about the blessing God gives to the “all of” giver.

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